listen.

How am i suppose to listen to God? Is it like.. okay God.. speak to me with words. I doubt I am going to hear some narrator voice like we do in movies. I wish though, it would make life so much easier for myself. I have situations, with guys, that I just don't know what to do at the moment. I really want God to show me, and I have this urge to ask my mom about it. Maybe that's god saying that I should talk to her about it, but I don't know.. it could just be my mind telling me so. In what ways does God speak to you?

Through dreams, friends, family members, or through music? It's like i'm sitting here waiting on a sign of some kind.. oh when will it come.